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The wedding of

Ruby&Theo

19 June 2027 ✦ New York

The wedding of

Ruby & Theo

19 June 2027 ✦ New York

Black tie. Then dancing.

Black tie. Then dancing.

You're onthe list.

We're getting married at five, and then we're throwing the party we've been planning since our second date.

There will be a short ceremony, a long dinner, three speeches and a dance floor that stays open until one. We'd love you on it.

Ruby & Theo

Blank place cards, a red matchbook, a coupe with a lipstick mark and two cherries on white linen

Doors open in

--Days
--Hours
--Mins
--Secs
A black record half out of a butter-yellow sleeve on red satin, a cherry beside it

Our story

Side A /Side B

Nine years, pressed to vinyl. Tap a track to see the photograph.

Side AHow we met, to the question
Side BEngaged, to now

Saturday 19 June

Therunningorder

  1. 5:00pm

    The Ceremony

    In the Mercer's long room. Please be seated by quarter to.

  2. 5:30pm

    Cocktails

    Martinis, oysters and a string quartet on the terrace.

  3. 7:00pm

    Dinner

    Long tables, candles, four courses.

  4. 8:30pm

    Speeches

    Three of them. We have asked for short.

  5. 9:00pm

    First Dance

    Ninety seconds of rehearsed, then we're improvising.

  6. 9:15pm

    Dancing

    A live band until eleven, then the DJ.

  7. 12:00am

    Late-Night Snack

    Fries and pizza by the slice, to keep you going.

  8. 1:00am

    Last Dance

    One more song. Then home, or wherever.

An empty ballroom with a mirrorball over a polished parquet floor and a red velvet curtain

The room

Ceremony & party

The MercerBallroom

212 Mercer Street, New York, NY 10012

Use the side door on Bleecker. The front is for the band.

Get directions

Dress to dance

Black tie.Bring shoesyou candance in.

A bow tie, opera gloves, a sequinned clutch, pearls and patent shoes thrown on red satin

Tuxedos, long dresses, sequins if you have them. The floor is polished parquet, so leave the stilettos you can't move in at home.

On the floor

  • Midnight
  • Oxblood
  • Champagne
  • Blush
  • Silver

Requests

What getsyou onthefloor?

  1. 06LovefoolThe CardigansPriya
  2. 05I Wanna Dance with SomebodyWhitney HoustonSam
  3. 04Got to Be RealCheryl LynnInes
  4. 03Le FreakChicDev
  5. 02Dancing QueenABBAGran
  6. 01SeptemberEarth, Wind & FireMaya
Open the playlist →
A brass room key, a room-service club sandwich, a coupe and a bow tie on a rumpled hotel bed

The after-after

Where tosleep itoff

Rooms are held at two hotels a short walk from the Mercer until 1 May.

  • The Greene Hotel

    $340 a night

    Four minutes on foot

    Book a room →

  • Howard House

    $265 a night

    Ten minutes on foot

    Book a room →

Last shuttle1:30 am

Two shuttles loop between the Mercer and both hotels from 11 pm.

Taxis
Yellow cabs pass the door all night. The coat check can call a car.
Parking
Mercer Street Garage, two doors down. Validated until 3 am.
A four-tier tower of coupe glasses with champagne overflowing down it

Cheers

Gifts

You being there is the gift. If you'd like to do more, here is where.

The small print

Questions

  • We love your kids, but this one is grown-ups only. Your hotel can recommend a sitter.

RSVP

Are youdancing?

Please reply by 1 April 2027

Will you be there?

The morning after

Thank you fordancing with us.

Ruby & Theo

19.06.27

Recovery brunch

Sunday from 11, at Odette's on Spring Street. Sunglasses welcome.

Last Dance · New York